Yep – i finally have got the Ick for J.
He showed up the other morning completely unannounced.
Things i realised that day.
– He cannot communicate
– beards/too much hair is not my thing
– He has no boundaries
– No respect for his partner
– He is against my values – drugs
– He has gang bangs with his mates who have gfs /kids at home
– He is moody
I have now created a healthy list of things i actually DO want
out of the 7 i have currently listed he would be compatible with ONE and that’s going fishing.
THANK YOU GOD for washing my eyes out and making me realise this is what i now know as a runner – chaser dynamic which is TOXIC AF and wasting my time, which might i add is valuable.